Grief care packages
When words
fall short,
send this.
Nothing I send feels like it carries the weight of what they're going through.
The Grief Kit is what to send instead. A workbook that explains what grief does to your body and your memory, two decks of prompts, a keepsake vessel, and three months of the app. Ships in 24 hours with a handwritten note.
What do you send someone who is grieving?
Something that is still useful in month four. Flowers are gone in a week and food runs out by Thursday, and both arrive in the stretch when the person is too numb to notice. The Grief Kit is built for the part after that: a workbook, two decks of prompts, a keepsake vessel, a journal and pen, a plantable seed card, and three months of the Thruology app. It costs $69.99 and ships in 24 hours.
What is actually in the Grief Kit?
A Start Here guide written for the year after rather than the first week. A grief workbook of twelve chapters. Two card decks, In Loving Memory and Building a New Normal. A journal and pen. A keepsake vessel necklace that holds ashes, a lock of hair or a small token. A plantable seed card. Tissues. And a code for three months of the Thruology app, which carries the whole kit on a phone.
Can I send it straight to them?
Yes, and most people do. Ship it to their address, add your note at checkout and we write it on the card by hand. There is no price anywhere in the box and no invoice in the package.
How fast does it ship?
In stock orders placed before 2pm Eastern on a business day go out the same day; everything else within 24 business hours. Standard delivery is two to five business days after that, and free on orders over $65, which a kit on its own clears.
Is this therapy?
No. It is a set of tools and a structure, not care from a professional, and nothing in it diagnoses or treats anything. If you are struggling, a doctor or a licensed counsellor is the right call. If you are in crisis in the US, call or text 988, any time. The Support page has more places to start.
Is it the right thing for a coworker, or is that too much?
It reads as considered rather than intimate, which is usually what people are worried about. It is a box of practical things with no religious framing and no assumptions about who died. Plenty go to colleagues and to the wider family rather than the closest person.
Do I need the app to use the kit?
No. The box works entirely on its own. The app carries the same material in a pocket, which matters at 4am and in a car park, and it adds journaling, breathing and a small moderated community. Three months come with every kit, and the code is in the box.
What if it is not right?
Thirty days to send it back unused for a full refund. If it turns up damaged or we sent the wrong thing, we fix it and you do not post anything back.
Why is it called Thruology?
Thruology, pronounced thru-ology. Thru as in through: not around it, not over it, not past it. Everything we make is built on the idea that the only way out of a hard chapter is through the middle of it, and that going through it is easier with the right things in your hands.


